Narcissist Divorce

Guiding you through every stage of divorcing a narcissist

If you’re married to a narcissist and considering a divorce, it can be difficult to know where to turn. Naturally, you’re aware of the impact their behaviour has on you and your family.

Of course, every narcissist is different and finding a resolution is not always easy, especially when there are children involved.

But with decades of specialist expertise, we have developed tried and tested strategies for dealing with narcissist divorce cases and protecting the interests of our clients.

Family courts in England and Wales focus on evidence and behaviour rather than the label of narcissism. This means divorcing a narcissist involves careful planning, clear boundaries and staying factual, strategic and firm.

Our highly-ranked family law solicitors will help you understand your legal rights and develop a strategy for securing the best possible outcome.

Am I married to a narcissist?

Narcissists are often described as having a mental health condition called narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).

NPD typically involves individuals having an unreasonably inflated sense of their own importance. They may have a constant need for admiration and the inability to understand or care about the feelings of others.

Psychologists have defined three different types of narcissist: the overt, covert and exhibitionist narcissist. As a non-exhaustive list, we often see a number of traits in these people, including:

• Coercive control: psychological, financial and emotional manipulation
• Lack remorse, compassion or empathy
• Poor self-esteem which manifests itself through arrogance
• Preoccupation with outward appearances: status, wealth and success seen as priorities
• Difficulty in regulating emotion normally, often resulting in aggressive impulses
• Vanity, self-righteousness and disproportionate self-centredness
• Sensitivity to criticism of themselves
• Intolerance for others’ imperfections
• Tendency to play the victim
• Avoiding accountability with ‘DARVO’

We find that narcissists typically value five key things: image, control, respect, attention and how useful you are to them. It’s easy to see how their behaviour can cause huge problems in everyday life, especially for those who are married to and live with them.

The traits of a narcissist can make them appear outwardly very successful. However, NPD is often a cover for low self-worth and individuals may be very sensitive to criticism.

If this sounds like your spouse and you want to make a change, you need the best people in your corner.

We find that narcissists typically value five key things: image, control, respect, attention and how useful you are to them. It’s easy to see how their behaviour can cause huge problems in everyday life, especially for those who are married to and live with them.

The traits of a narcissist can make them appear outwardly very successful. However, NPD is often a cover for low self-worth and individuals may be very sensitive to criticism.

If this sounds like your spouse and you want to make a change, you need the best people in your corner.

Trusted lawyers for narcissist divorce cases

As an ‘exceptionally strong team of experienced lawyers’ according to Legal 500, we help individuals across Yorkshire to navigate the complexities and challenges of family law.

Our size enables us to combine the agility and empathy of a boutique practice with the expertise and knowledge of a large family law firm.

We’re proud to be rated as ‘Excellent’ on reviewsolicitors.co.uk, with our team holding five stars for value, communication, initial impressions, approachability, documentation accuracy and legal knowledge.

When you enquire, we’ll arrange a fixed-fee, one-hour consultation. This can take place remotely or at our welcoming offices in central Harrogate – whatever is most comfortable for you.

Many family law firms prefer free 30-minute consultations, but we think our approach allows us to offer the most effective initial advice, tailored to your circumstances.

Because divorcing a narcissist is already challenging enough, we’ll ensure there are no hidden surprises when it comes to fees and timescales associated with your case. There are a number of ways to fund the divorce, which we’ll help you explore.

We understand that making the decision to divorce or separate is not an easy one. We will be with you every step of the way to help protect your assets, assist with children matters and consider all other financial implications of separation.

We know how narcissists work, what they’re most likely to respond to and how family courts treat narcissists. Contact us to move forward with confidence and claim the future you deserve.