Is social media destroying your relationship? (Part 1)

Social media is an integral part of everyday life for most people.  It is a fantastic way to keep in touch with both relatives and friends from whom distance separates you.  However, could social media be damaging your relationship?

Distracting

Social media can be very distracting.  If your phone/tablet is glued to your hand, scrolling through social media, are you really paying your partner enough attention?

Oversharing

Oversharing, where someone shares too much information about their private life, is an easy trap to fall into on social media and it can lead to arguments within the home.  If your partner is a private person, they may not appreciate their personal life being broadcast to the world.

Jealousy

 Seeing a stranger of the opposite sex liking or commenting on your partner’s social media may be upsetting and unwittingly bring out a jealous streak or make you feel insecure.  This can lead to arguments and place further strain on your relationship.

Envy

Many people are keen to create a persona on social media of how they believe they should look.  This is also true of relationships.  Inevitably this can lead to people comparing their relationships to that of others which is never a good thing.  Everyone and every relationship is different and the picture perfect world of social media relationships can set unrealistic expectations for couples.

Whilst social media on its own is unlikely to destroy your relationship, it can highlight issues that are already in the background.  If you do feel that your relationship is over, and you want a divorce, you need to get specialist legal advice now to get the best outcome for you and your family.

To see how Harrogate Family Law can help you, give us a call now on 01423 594680.

Andrew Meehan is an experienced family lawyer specialising in complex divorces involving significant or hidden assets, as well as cases involving children.

He is recommended for family law by both Chambers 2019 (York, Hull and surrounding regions) and the Legal 500 2018 (Leeds/West Yorkshire and North Yorkshire region).

Everyone’s circumstances are different and this article is provided by way of general information only and must not be replied upon.  If you require legal advice on a family law issue, please feel free to contact us by emailing enquiries@harrogatefamilylaw.co.uk.